Wednesday, December 29, 2010

Abbey's 6th Birthday!




This was in late November and seeing it was her turn for a party (I only do a party every 2nd or 3rd year) she celebrated with a few friends from school and church. My girls always have a "home party" because I feel there's something special about celebrations at home amongst your family. I know i remember the fun games and yummy food my Mum used to prepare for us. So we played "pin the tiara on abbey (an outline of her anyway!)", musical cushions, statues, pass-the-parcel, hat-decorating amongst other things. And ate yummy fairy bread, chocolate crackles and hot food. She had a ball!

This year I also bought my daughter a rose - she is such a delightful young lady and she relished the gift as if it had been her only present! She is a girl who dreams of the more classical leisures in life and loves musicals, dancing, playing with dolls, reading and..... long distance running!! (who'd a thought?!) So next year she is really keen to try classical ballet and was over the moon to buy her first pair of ballet shoes for her 6th birthday. Happy birthday my beautiful Star!

3 years old ...and a bit!


Hip Hip Hooray!



Oops!! Been quite the slack blogger lately although i have been checking my favourites quite regularly!! Anyway, thought i better blog about my son's 3rd birthday seeing as it was quite a milestone. Jesse has grown up in leaps and bounds lately. He's not throwing quite so many tantrums which may or may not be because 1) we told him that when he turns 3 he doesn't need to throw them anymore (which i think he believed!) 2) he's speaking a lot better 3) he can finally tell us when his ears ARE blocked and he can't hear us properly! So together with a lot more sleep he's becoming quite a little angel and very much FUN to be around! Ok so maybe not an angel - but he does look at me very angelically ;)
He had a great birthday with family and received lots of fun BOY presents. His favourite is Buzz Lightyear (from Toy Story) which he affectionately calls "Buzzie" and zooms everywhere with him in tow! Of course now he has a fascination with jumping off things which this mother is none too sure about. He also got a scooter and bubble machine which he adores! So all in all he is becoming a lovely, fun and cheeky boy - even if his sisters still cop some whacks over the head with random objects....at least he goes straight to his "waiting place" in self-imposed discipline! hehehe what a lad!

Saturday, November 13, 2010

in our house....

Sometimes our son falls asleep on the stairs....


Sometimes these 2 sisters are so close they share a bed.....

What funny things happen in your house??

Saturday, October 30, 2010

I'm a toddler now!



16 months..... She's into everything - climbing, climbing, climbing! Practising using those vocal cords too much to her brother's consternation! Loves music, cuddles and her mama's lap. And must only be served the same food as everyone else thank you very much! Watch out world - Tessa is on the move!

Tuesday, October 26, 2010

hopefully never to be repeated...


The last 6 weeks. have been awful. Ghastly in fact which is why i have been unable to blog.

It started on the last day of last term (mid Sept) when we went for a weekend a way to celebrate my Dad's 60th. That night Ellie woke up vomiting, Tessa woke up screaming in pain and Jesse started with Diarrhoea. Having thought it would just be a 24 hr bug, we stayed and tried to enjoy the weekend.

However the night we returned home all hell broke loose with Ellie and Jesse vomiting and Tessa screaming again. STill thinking it was a 24-48 hr thing i tackled the mountain of disgusting laundry and tried to get the kids to rest and keep up their fluids. The next day i came down with it so violently that i couldn't get off the couch - i payed the girls $2 each to look after the younger 2 kids all day - best money i ever spent! Funny thing was mine only lasted 24 hours and i began to feel much better. What i didn't realise was that I was on antibiotics for a sinus infection that happened to get rid of this bug! lucky me.

My kids though were not so lucky. Ellie in particular was getting weaker and weaker and waking every 2nd night with vomiting and having continual Diarrhoea. With that much sleep deprivation i wasn't thinking so clearly or i would have realised the pattern but anyway, after 10 days I took her to the hospital. They were puzzled but just put it down to a viral gastro (seriously?????after 10 days????) but she went seriously downhill after that and we bounced in and out of hospital every 2nd day for another 6 days until i finally cracked it and said to them "She can't even talk or get off the couch and this is day 16. WHY AM I the only one better when everyone else in my house is sick with this?? Could it be something else like a parasite??? we WERE in Fiji lately AND have been exposed to this other parasite.." Suddenly they listened. And they were willing to accept other possibilities. My son had also had contact with another boy with a parasitic infection only 5 DAYS before all this happened.

Meanwhile, my baby Tessa had quietly grown more and more lethargic and unwell. on Day 12 she woke screaming in pain and this kept on unabated every half hour until 4.30pm when i interuppted Kieren working and told him i couldn't do this any longer - please take her to hospital. She was immedicately admitted with ? intersussception (telescoping of the bowel) and was transferred with me to the Royal Children's. After xrays ruling out intersussception and pain meds they discharged us home. Next day the Diarrhoea started again.

AGH! What a saga already! When elise was seen in ED on Day 16 i got a great doctor who was very interested in the whole family. he prescribed us all Flagil (an antiparasitic medication) and suddenly within 24 hours 4/5 of us were all better (Abbey has been well throughout this ordeal)! the only exception being Elise who couldn't keep down the Flagil without vomiting. So back into hospital we trekked and they immediately cannulated Ellie and gave her litres and litres of fluids. By this time she was SO dehydrated that any walking would send her heartrate through the roof , she had lost 4 kilos and her eyes were all sunken. I was SO scared....
24 hours later we were discharged with Ellie recovering very quickly and eating anything and everything. In fact within 24 hours of tolerating her medicine she was nearly back to normal (apart from looking skeletal!) Later that week she commenced half days at school and seemed very happy. Welcome germ Number 2(more to come).

Meanwhile back at home, the Flagil had worn off and both Tessa and Jesse started suffering more bouts of Diarrhoea. So back to the doctors and after pathology tests, were both started (at different times) on new rounds of Flagil. Oh and kieren and I did too. urgh. so we started changing nappies with gloves on to avoid reinfection. 6 times we ended up back at the GP's and they were scratching their heads and had no idea what to do with us. Have you ever seen that look in doctor's eyes when they see you enter, and you and your family are their worst nightmare?>??!!! Well, Jesse's test came back positive for Dientamoeba Fragilis - the same parasite our friend had. I had caught Jesse washing his toy in the toilet after this boy had defecated there (GROSSSS!) so i'm assuming that's how he picked it up. And even though i had told the doctors this they were SO adamant that it wouldn't cause all these symptoms.

So the last few weeks have ebbed and flowed with alternating rounds of Flagil and Diarrhoea. Doing my own research i have found that Dientamoeba Fragilis is a common parasite in Western, temperate areas and is VERY resistant to antiparasitics, particularly Flagil. One of the main problems is that other medicines used to treat this parasite are not available in Australia, AND GP's are very reluctant to prescribe alternative treatments (even though the antibiotic i was on for my sinus infection can be used to treat it very effectively, it is not authorised as such in Australia). So. A stale mate. Finally yesterday i got sick of visiting my GP and headed back to the hospital with Tessa as it has been 5 1/2 weeks of intermittent Diarrhoea. Finally we have been referred to the Infectious Diseases Clinic at the Royal Children's Hospital. Hopefully we'll find some answers and treatment there. I wonder why we werent referred there after the first stint but anyway.

ENTER GERM TWO: Bordetella Pertussis. Yep. You Got it. Whooping Cough. Poor Ellie copped it - i guess going back to school immune-deficient was not so grand a plan. So by the end of last week, as if i hadn't had enough puke and pooh to deal with, Ellie started coughing and then "whooping" and hurling. Charming. Poor girl. It's HORRIBLE to watch your child suffer with this. I just thank God we hadn't had any contact with young babies cos that would have been heartbreaking in a babe. Funnily enough i diagnosed this one before the GP did too. I really should become a Dr. - I've had enough "experience!!" Abbey came down with it earlier this week but only a very mild version and it seems the rest of the family are clear (thanks to our vaccinations last year!)

So that is my story so far....i've left out a few bits so as not to bore you with TOO much detail!! Although the bit where i pre-empted the paediatrician with a diagnosis was pretty cool. :P Gotta love being a parent and trusting those gut instincts. For me this horrible saga has made me aware of just how limited modern medicine and alternative therapies really are, AND how assertive you have to be for the sake of your children (although Kieren tells me i'm quite assertive enough thanks very much!).

So hopefully i'll have an end to this tale soon, but until then wish me luck, pray, and DONT play in the toilet!

Wednesday, October 6, 2010

Gappy Abbey



My second baby lost 2 baby teeth in the same month! How fast she is growing!! Luckily a tooth fairy named Tabitha came - only when Mum got back from Sydney..funny that! Abbey said "now i know 2 ways to lose teeth - eat an apple OR sneezing!" Bet you didn't know that!!

Monday, August 23, 2010

A Plan....


Hi all! thanks for the advice...and sympathy! Last night he slept for 13 hours straight and he is a different child today :D And I am a different Mummy too!! After further discussions with our Child Health Nurse we have been referred for an Ear/Nose/Throat specialist. She suspects that maybe sleep apnoea/adenoid obstruction is triggering the sleep walking (given that it is much much worse during and after head colds/blood noses) Hopefully we can get to the bottom of this for all our family's sake!

Thanks too for the helpful suggestions Raewyn and Shellene - taking the light bulbs out today!! well holidays here we come....going to take a break for a few weeks and hopefully will be back feeling refreshed and rejuvenated!!

Ciao, C xo

Sunday, August 22, 2010

HELP!!!! Advice needed....


I have a serious issue here at home. It started in January and is still continuing and I am SO exhausted i need some serious help. Jesse - our lively 2 1/2 year old - it seems has a sleepwalking issue. Now before i get advice for sleep training, just be aware that ALL of my babies have slept through the night from 4-8 weeks of age (i know - you can whinge now!) And so did Jesse until around 2 years of age. At that point we would find him climbing out of the cot at all times of the night and not being able to get back in. This worsened when we put him in a bed - he started roaming around the house, opening doors, switching lights on and sometimes we couldn't even find him. VERY SCARY!

We removed the back of the door handle so he couldn't get out of his room but because he shares with his baby sister, the light turning on/off and other noisy behaviour has seriously interrupted hers (and our) sleep. It has really come to a head the last 2 nights as Kieren and I have been so exhausted (after the rounds with the flu as well) that safety concerns (such as forgetting to put panadol away and Jesse sculling it) has meant 1 trip to the hospital and another to the Dr. I can feel it spiralling out of control - sleep deprivation and accidents seem to go hand-in-hand. I am feeling like a really slack parent but how can you keep up being awake and vigilant during the hours of 1-4am and still function normally during the day?

We have tried so many options - different sleeping arrangements, spanking, simply returning him to bed, bedtime routines, even phenergan (which now doesn't even work!). it does seem to get better for a little while but we have also noticed that his daytime behaviour and tantrums worsen during phases of sleepwalking. So please if you've any experience with this or know of any information that may help...please leave a comment. I am all outta ideas!

Thursday, August 12, 2010

Time Flies...



...when this little cherub is around!! She's walking now! And talking...she has about 10-15 words already! Mum, Dad, 'Lise, Ab, 'Esse and of course the miss herself "Tess"! As well as nigh-nighs, food, ta, all done, cup, 'nana, .... goodness what a lot for a 13 month old! She's starting to exert her independence too and throw a few tantrums... sigh... i sure do have 'em strongwilled! She seems to be a lot like eldest sister - very outgoing and definitely a people person! Jesse is (for the mostpart) being an awesome big brother and having lots of practise at sharing :D
She has very nearly weaned - going to bed without a feed or bottle now which is a big step. Wow - how time flies... and just for the record - No! i'm not clucky again :D

Thursday, July 29, 2010

The good, the bad and the ugly!




a good sitting log we found on our "bear-hunt" adventure!


Abbey practising snow-boarding!

and after eating too much snow!

Me doing a snow, i mean, ICE angel!


Snowballed!


The girls' mini-icemen


My ingenious way to get a pram from here to there over snow


My gorgeous ski-bunny!


My other gorgeous ski-bunny!


the tobogganning duo!
..who didn't come in till moonrise~

Ellie and Miss C

Snowbaby!


Our first snow holiday - that was the good! The bad was Abbey throwing up and delaying our getaway by 24-48 hours - lucky no one else got sick! The ugly was Jesse's face after he came flying off the toboggan - and no - he didn't hit a tree - just snow! (or ice actually...)
Anyway we had a wonderful mini-break with friends and will definitely go back - maybe when there's a bit more snow and a bit less ice!

(NB: Don't scroll down if you can't handle blood )





Just after Jesse's stack off the toboggan.... luckily no major damage just lots of facial grazes and a blood nose....and a wee little black eye~

Sunday, July 18, 2010

ONE.


My Tessa-doll is one! We had a lovely party with friends and family and even though she was a bit out of sorts with her sore leg she still enjoyed all the party food! We had her dedication at church in the morning too which was very special! Many thanks to Grandpa and Nannie Walsh for coming all the way to celebrate Miss Tessa's special day! The rice table and new pram were definitely the hits of the day!!



Loving my new pram and baby!
Tessa's friend, Miss V!
Nanny's impromptu knitting school!!!


Learning sign language with her second cousin!

Every party needs some music - lucky Jesse was there to woo everyone with his cute rendition of "Twinkle, twinkle little THtar" complete with leg tapping to the beat!!

Mum and me

Rice table fun!

Dedication at church with our family...

Thursday, June 17, 2010

My poor bubba girl....




has a broken leg. Only a week away from her first birthday. I feel terrible.... I was busy cleaning up afternoon tea dishes and getting ready for dinner when i realised it was FAR TOO QUIET. Normally with a baby and toddler around your feet you can't hear yourself think but quiet is definitely worse. I thought they were playing in the playroom but quiet means something else. Then i heard the clunk, clunk, clunk of someone falling down the stairs. Then the wail.... It seems one little brother had opened the door for baby Tessa to escape then gently closed it and together they had scaled right to the top of the staircase. Who knows what happened up there but poor Tessa fell half way down. It could have been worse - there's tiles at the bottom - but regardless, it was a big fall and something didn't seem quite right about her cry. So I got tea on quickly while we waited for Nan to come and then it was off to the hospital. The waiting room was empty (When does that EVER happen???!!!) and we were seen straight away. They were more concerned about a head injury but i knew that wasn't a concern - I was just so worried about her right leg. Well, 2 nurses, a doctor and an x-ray or 2 later, my poor bubba girl is diagnosed with a fractured femur - top inner part. Apparently babies don't need casts so it's just pain relief and restricted mobility... Poor Kieren is devastated he's stuck in the US and can't get home. But i'm coping as best i can. Trying to be patient, patient and more patient even with sleep deprivation and no husband home. So next week we'll know more after a follow up at the Children's hospital.

This photo i took the morning before she fell. Guess she won't be riding the fire engine for a month or two now.....

Thursday, June 3, 2010

11 months....


It's been 11 months since I first introduced my 18 month old son to his brand new baby sister.... And today is the first day they played together! I mean - REALLY together... they cooked and stirred with plates and utensils in the home corner and then chased each other (crawling! ) and giggling around the room. Ok so there were a few "stacks on" (Jesse) and hair-grabbing episodes (TEssa) that needed refereeing but on the whole they were great. Ahhhh brings smiles to this Mummy's face.....

Sunday, May 23, 2010

7th Birthday: All aboard!!
















A post from earlier this month :)

Today marked 7 years since my gorgeous eldest daughter was born! those years have passed like a whirlwind....in a hurry...just like our daughter!! She was born in a hurry 6 weeks early and has been like that ever since....
Well, we decided that (not being a party year - our children only have a party every 2nd year) we would have a family outing instead. So here we are - all aboard Puffing Billy - an old steam train traversing the beautiful sunny autumn hillsides of Mt Dandenong. Miss S (Elise's current best friend!) accompanied us. It looked like we had 5 children 7 and under. A lot of people looked twice!! But they were ALL so well behaved we had the "bestest time"! Happy Birthday Elle-belle :D